Sunday, March 29, 2020

War Movies, a Big NO NO.

Out of a hike.
Never know what will cause a sundowners episode to kick in. We were having a great day. The morning went well, she was a little cranky and just not herself. We worked through it. Normally she is easy to persuade to get her to do what needs to be done. Shaving her chin every morning can be a hassle. I have to sweet talk her into letting me put on a warm wash cloth to soften and moisturize her whiskers, then the shaving cream, and hardest of all, to keep her from moving while I shave her. Most of the time it gets done without problems. Then having her take the wash cloth and wipe her face as a way of washing her face. Then, brushing her teeth. We use battery powered brushes and she has a difficult time turning hers on and brushing. I take what I can, some is better than nothing. 

After our morning ritual, it was in the back yard to do some yardwork. Unless she asks what to do, I let her figure out how to help me. I think it makes her feel more like herself that way. I don't know about you, but when we were done for the day, I could see the difference and I told Sweetie that very thing. Told her how much help she was, and I could not of done it without her. She likes hearing that. Easter Egg. 

Now come the bad part. We went in to watch TV. One of the shows I wanted to watch was from the History Channel about WWII. Shortly into the show, about the Enterprise, she went bonkers. Weeping, and carrying on about the boys and she couldn't help them, and just scaring me. I was able to calm her down with CBD and lotion on her neck. Changed the show, watched "Coco" and that did the trick. 

Then I remembered that Dementia doesn't like violent shows. Even if it is in a historical show, Sweetie cannot tell the difference. The other part of this, is her dad was on a carrier in the Pacific during the war. She was just over whelmed and it was a great lesson for me. So, we are now going to watch a lot of funny, uplifting shows. We have Netflix, Prime, the Disney Channel, and a movie channel. Lots of good choices to choose from. 

After getting her back level again, we had a good finish to the day. There is an old saying about married couples, and with Sweetie it is so true for me today. It is, When Mama's happy, everyone is happy. The more I can keep Sweetie happy and level, the happier I am. And that my friends is one of the best Easter Egg of them all. 

Driver just told me to take my time this morning. He said there isn't any rush. I know He is just being kind and loving. He knew what we went through yesterday. Rest is sometimes the best cure. He is a kink and gentleman who looks out for the best for me. So, its time to shut this down, get going, "Now where are my sunglasses?" If I don't put them away in the same place, I can never find them. "Oh, there they are." OK, ready to go. Into the passenger side, glasses on, as we head down the Road to Dementia Town, not worrying about, potholes, detours, or traffic, that's because we have our Shiny Side Up. I hope you keep learning on how to find your Easter Eggs and Keep your Shiny Side Up. Enjoy your adventure as we travel the Road to Dementia Town, Keeping our Shiny Sides Up. Love Ya, God Bless.     

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