A gold star day.

Sweetie's Kids and me. 

This is me and my backup crew, of sorts. From left to right are the kids in age. Yellow has helped somewhat, the one on the left is so afraid of helping, she won't. She is also out of work and I've offered to pay her for her service, and she has refused. The biggest fear I have is, if something happens to me, what will happen to Sweetie? More than likely, they will put her in a home until Jesus makes a house call. 

What is nice and a bit comforting is that I'm a good money manager and if that scenario is played out, Sweetie will be well taken care of. We're in the right place for her care, if I'm gone. In writing this, I realize how right I am. It isn't one of those things you dwell upon, but it is true. 

When Sweetie's mom had her stroke, and none of us kids could help, and she was poor, our choices were limited. I don't have that worry hanging over my heart if I'm called home first. Thank you Driver.

Monday

After a weekend of some struggles, I wanted out and on the golf course. It was going to be warm with a slight breeze, and I needed a break from the house. 

Sweetie woke up with a smile, and that is always a good sign. Smiling, attempting to make conversation, and I am just delighted to see her this way. 

Before I got her up, I made oatmeal for breakfast so she would have it right off the bat. Put some bananas on it this morning, she ate it right up. Another good sign that she was going to have a good day. 

I was right. We did some laundry, headed for the course, for a day in the sun. She wasn't as active as before while I was playing. Her getting out of the cart and walking to the tee's and greens is less. She is becoming more and more willing to just sit in the cart. I'm still afraid of those moments when she decides to get out and walk to that misty Dementia destination. She hasn't done that in over a year, but the possibility of her doing that is still real. 

Went to Lowe's for a new sprinkler, home for lunch and a little bit of yard work. Then dinner, TV, and the day is done. A gold star day. 

Driver just loves it when the beauty of His plans are on full display. With a sprinkle of sunshine, a whisper of joy, and a relaxation of contentment, we enjoyed our day on the Road to Dementia Town, one more time. As we go, Keeping our Shiny Side Up. C'ya, Luv ya, and God Bless.